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  • I did it with a broken heart

    Someone asked me the other day what my life had been like for the 18 months. I laughed and said “I’m still standing, though I’m not sure how.” It’s mostly the truth, though I’m figuring out how I am still standing. And the answer isn’t one individual thing, it’s a lot of little things. I…

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  • There are moments in life when you wonder if you’ve really moved forward in life. If you’ve broken the habits that have plagued your past and caused you so much anxiety you can hardly think about it. I’ll be the first one to tell you, those are fears I have daily. That some toxic trait…

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  • Life Changes

    They say if you want to make the universe laugh, tell it your plans. Goodness isn’t that true. There are many things about the last several weeks that have given truth to that statement. I think that the thing that has me really laughing is how the universe has shown me how wrong some of…

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  • The Dating World

    Bet you never thought you would hear those words out of me. Trust me, you aren’t the only one. But I managed to find myself in a position where I met a man, and I like him. And it really got me thinking about what I would want if I ever really re-entered the dating…

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  • Post Taylor Swift

    Over the weekend I was able to go to see Taylor Swift perform at Rogers Centre in Toronto for Night 6 of the Eras Tour. Anyone who knows me in real life knows that I had been waiting for that day for 461 days. And it was everything I had hoped it would be and…

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  • It’s Been A While

    I had to take a break, because it felt like I wasn’t enjoying this anymore. But now I’m back, and I realized how much I missed it. The last week has been rough (I say as someone who voted for Kamala Harris) but I know that if we stick together, we will make it through…

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  • Settling In- Finally

    Let me start by saying how incredibly crazy my life has been the last month. I traveled to see my brother and his wife and daughter – across the county. I found out my sister is expecting a child. I almost adopted another cat. Oh, and we almost went to trial on a case that…

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  • Finally Free

    I talk about my divorce a lot. And honestly it’s because it has been the biggest thing in my life for the last year. But today I finally got to truly close the door on that part of my life. Everything is final and done. The last piece that I was waiting to be transferred…

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  • Post Birthday Colds

    As luck would have it, as soon as I got another year older, I caught whatever cold is circulating around work. It actually kicked my ass more than I could have ever imagined. It’s hell getting old (insert group of people older than me telling me I’m not old). I’m not really sure what I’m…

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  • The Last Day of 26

    I’m sitting here, on the eve of my 27th Birthday, and I can’t help but reflect at how far I’ve come in the last year. How much my life has changed, and how crazy it is to me that it’s only been a year. My life feels like I should be in my late 30s…

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